Bishop Barber and the young Marine with cancer

Bishop Barber

Bishop Barber

The following comes from Bishop Michael Barber’s homily for the World Day of the Sick Mass on Feb. 8, published in the Feb. 17 edition of the Oakland Catholic Voice.

When I was chaplain to the 23rd Marine Regiment in San Bruno, there was a Marine who was being inspected one day. The Marines were lined up in formation, and the inspecting officer was going through the ranks. The Marine’s uniform was perfect, but on the side of his neck there was a lump, a growth, something that didn’t look right. The major said, “Corporal, what is that on your neck?” The corporal answered, “It’s nothing, sir.” The major asked, “Did you go see the doctor about that?” The Corporal replied “Yes, sir, I went to the doctor but the doctor says it’s nothing.”

The major looked at him and said, “I order you to go to another doctor and get it looked at.” So he did, and it was cancer. The corporal was 21 years old. He had been on a tour in Iraq and had returned safe, without a scratch on him, and here he had cancer. He immediately started a round of surgeries, treatments, chemotherapy, radiation — everything. But the cancer kept spreading.

The Marine Corps had him treated at Stanford University Hospital. I remember going with him to one of his surgeries because neither his mother nor his father would go with him or have anything to do with him.

I was there one morning when he woke up from one of his surgeries. His head was covered with bandages. They had to take out his glands that provide taste and smell, so he couldn’t taste or smell anything. He was all bandaged up and we were talking when into the hospital room came a small squad of Marines from his unit to visit him.

They were looking all around, and their first question to him was, “Where are all the pretty nurses?” And he replied, “Oh, I thought you came to visit me.” They said “Oh, yeah …”

And they asked him, “Can we go down and get you a Coke and some potato chips?” and he said “Yes, I’m hungry.” Then they asked if he wanted plain or barbecue chips, and he told them that he could no longer taste the difference. 21 years old.

….My friend the Marine who was diagnosed with cancer thought, “I better make plans for the future” (and if you’ve got cancer, you make BIG plans). He asked me, “Father Barber, I want to become Catholic.” (He didn’t belong to any religion).

I said “OK, I’ll give you a book on the faith, and you read the book, see if that’s what you want to sign up for. Then I’ll baptize you.” He said, “I don’t need any book. I want to be what you and the colonel are.” (The regimental colonel happened to be Catholic, had visited the Marine every day and offered to take the lad into his home to recover from his surgery.)

I gave that young Marine the sacraments of Baptism, First Confession, First Communion, Confirmation and the Anointing of the Sick — all in one day. He died a few months later, fortified with the rites of Holy Mother Church. He became configured to Christ through his baptism — and through the cross of cancer.

One last thing. In the Gospel of Luke we read how Mary, when notified by the angel that she would become the Mother of God, was also told that her cousin Elizabeth was pregnant. As soon as Mary heard that someone needed her, she left immediately and went to her cousin’s house to help her in preparing to give birth to her baby. Now, if Mary goes to the immediate help of a pregnant woman, how much more will she come to someone who is suffering an illness or a disease or is in deep pain. How much more!

On my little iPhone that I keep next to my bed, early every morning it dings because I have someone in Rome who emails me the Pope’s homily from his morning Mass. And this morning he had something very nice to say about Mary that I want to share with you:

“Our Lady is always close to us. She looks upon each one of us with maternal love and accompanies us always on our journey. Do not hesitate to turn to her for every need, especially when the burden of life, with all its problems, makes itself felt.” Amen!

 

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  1. Teaching by example is important. We must live our Faith; we must know our Faith through the Bible and the CCC so that we can accurately teach our children and others., and so we can live our lives as Jesus teaches..
    (Sadly, Bishop Barber publically introduced pro-abortion and pro-sodomy marriage Gov Jerry Brown at his televised Mass when he became Bishop. He gave Brown Holy Communion for all to see – the participation in Sacrilege and Scandal. Pray for all of our Bishops and Priests.)

    To educate ourselves regarding end of life decisions in accord with our Faith see the “Catechism of the Catholic Church, Second Edition” paragraph numbers #2276, 2277, 2278, 2279.
    And see the CCC regarding the Sacrament of “Anointing of the Sick” starting with paragraph # 1499 – 1532.

    We mustalways prepare for the most important time in our lives – our return to
    God.

    • How sweet it must be to have a life so simple that it boils down to a few lines in the CCC.

      • No, Catholics are required to adhere to everything in the Catechism of the Catholic Church – which by the way references the Bible – in hundreds of footnotes.

        “….the CATECHISM has raised throughout the world, even among non-Christians, and confirms its purpose of being presented as a full, complete exposition of Catholic doctrine, enabling everyone to know what the Church professes, celebrates, lives, and prays in her daily life.” – Pope John Paul II (CCC pg xiv)

      • Life is simple and good when we put God’s will above our own.
        This is the most internal peace I have ever known, and I have had a good life.

  2. What an amazing story of salvation and the mysticism of suffering. I’ll not easily forget this one.

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